What issues have you come across in your experiences ?
What solutions work the best for you ?
Chemistry is an aspect of a relationship, also having fun and going out. These things cost money: dining, vacations, what kind of car to drive, clothes to wear. Sometimes partners differ in how they work hard to make, spend and value a savings.
Financial friction is one of the greatest relationship barriers, overcoming differences in money spending.
1. MEETINGS AND COMMUNICATION
Paying bills-together and sharing responsibility
Talk about: needs, wants, priorities
2. ACKNOWLEDGE RESPECT APPRECIATE
ACCEPT EACH OTHER, LEARN FROM EACH OTHER, COMPROMISE
ONE TWO THREE-TO BE LESS EXTREME
One may need to be a little less frugal and cheap, a little more relaxed
The other person can become a little less spend thrifty
Meet in the middle on some issues that are shared.
Discuss your values and including how you spend discretionary money:on movies, boosk, dining out, vacations, where to go, where to stay, where to eat, donating money and how much.
3. Have a financial plan for long term saving, automatic deposit
4. Go to the bank and meet with a financial person, talk to your accountant for neutral advise